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Narcissistic Parents: How they React When You Finally Go No-Contact
In this video, I talk about narcissistic parent's reactions when you go no-contact. Learning about these is crucial for reinforcing your self-differentiation and ensuring you have the strategies to uphold your no-contact decision effectively.
If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip, here's how I can help👇🏼
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Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC, has helped 1000s of people in the same situation as you. As a family and self-differentiation coach, he uses his 45 years of experience to help clients get permanently unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships, and build a true sense of self.
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Narcissistic Parents: Things they Hate That HEALTHY PEOPLE LOVE
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In this video, I talk about the things your narcissistic parents hate that healthy people love. Learning about these contrasts will help you understand the fundamental differences between unhealthy and healthy relationship dynamics, empowering your journey toward self-differentiation. If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of thei...
Narcissistic Parents: Odd Ways They Shame You for Changing
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In this video, I talk about the weird ways your narcissistic parents shame you for changing. Learning about these is a crucial step in your road to recovery and self-differentiation. If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip, here's how I can help👇🏼 🔥Access my FREE Training - ‘Build the Self You Were Never Allowed...
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Narcissistic Parents: Basic Things They Got WRONG About Parenting
Narcissistic Upbringing: Why You Don't Remember Your Childhood
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Narcissistic Upbringing: Why You Don't Remember Your Childhood
Narcissistic Parents: Why They Cast You As The Problem of The Family
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Narcissistic Parents: When They Realize They Lost You
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Narcissistic Parents: When They Realize They Lost You
Narcissistic Parents: Harsh Truths About Them You’re Blind About
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Narcissistic Family: Boundaries That Drive Them CRAZY (but will save you!)
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Narcissistic Family: The CRUCIAL No-Contact Component No One Talks About
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Narcissistic Parents: When they Used You as Their Therapist
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Narcissistic Parents: When they Used You as Their Therapist
Narcissistic Parents: Unfair Ways they Play Favorites
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Narcissistic Parents: Unfair Ways they Play Favorites
Narcissistic Parents: Things they DON'T Know How To Do
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Narcissistic Parents: Things they DON'T Know How To Do
Narcissistic Family: They Paint You BAD For These Very Normal Behaviors
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Narcissistic Family: Verbal Abuse Tactics They Constantly Use
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Narcissistic Family: Verbal Abuse Tactics They Constantly Use
Narcissistic Parents: Things You Absolutely CAN Count on Them For
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Narcissistic Parents: Why You Always Felt Like a BURDEN to Them
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Narcissistic Parents: Why they Hate The EMPATH
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Narcissistic Parents: What To Expect as they Grow Older
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Narcissistic Parents: Tricks they Use to OVERSTEP Your Boundaries
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Narcissistic Parents: Tricks they Use to OVERSTEP Your Boundaries
Narcissistic Family: Why Going No Contact Is NOT Enough
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Narcissistic Parents: How They Impacted Your Career Path
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Narcissistic Parents: Excuses they Make for their Abusive Behavior
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Narcissistic Parents: Things they Will NEVER Admit To
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Narcissistic Parents: Things they Will NEVER Admit To
Narcissistic Father or Mother: When they Demand Love and Respect
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Narcissistic Parents: Really Odd Things They BLAME You For
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  • @miuthub7954
    @miuthub7954 15 годин тому

    Yep this has happened to me

  • @1stBorn538
    @1stBorn538 15 годин тому

    I have no problem honoring someone who acts like a mother or father instead of treating their kids like friends, or enemies

  • @mikesmith6594
    @mikesmith6594 15 годин тому

    Sounds like my aunts, uncles, cousins they all have had secret meetings about me without me just spread gossip about how awful a person I am or crazy they think I am for questioning their manipulation?

  • @susanmartin6159
    @susanmartin6159 16 годин тому

    My brother (who is 10 years older) tried to strangle me. As an adult! He abused me my entire life. The only reason I'm still here is because he fell during the struggle.

  • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
    @peaceofmindofpeace1650 16 годин тому

    Yes narcissists get under your skin. It's psychological r.pe.

  • @marilynschmidt6400
    @marilynschmidt6400 17 годин тому

    You know for sure that's what's happening when you open yourself up to new friendships. These people have been purposely put in your path because of their 'secret meetings'

  • @jackilynpyzocha662
    @jackilynpyzocha662 17 годин тому

    Dad is mean!

  • @mrschristinewilson
    @mrschristinewilson 17 годин тому

    This is so true. They can form an entire world of agreement based on conversations about you without you. Then, their agreement looks like truth to others. I found great relief realizing that the person they were mad at was not ME! It was a figment of their collective imagination!

  • @jackilynpyzocha662
    @jackilynpyzocha662 17 годин тому

    Dad would emotionally build me up, then brutally tear me down the same and in other horrendous ways!. I deserve a better dad, I have nil to no-contact with him. He nitpicks at me, he thinks he's perfect. and he hates women, my gender. Too bad for him. HIs father was this way, worse. Dad terrorized Mom, she divorced him in the '70s. He's taken it out on me ever since. I look, think and act like her, her family. Her parents(who I later lived with), called him on his atrocious behavior. I am proud of them. They lived next to a people's cemetary, (they reside there in the cemetary now), for over six years(with me). No paranormal problems. Dad was/is the problem!

    • @jackilynpyzocha662
      @jackilynpyzocha662 17 годин тому

      I complained in my 20's to/about him, his reply "tough shit", ow. He's an asshole! I asked him why he treats me badly, his reply "because you're nice and polite", talk about punishment. I'm uppity, he hates that, good!

  • @user-vx2yo4dm6h
    @user-vx2yo4dm6h 17 годин тому

    YES. And this is where they plan together ways to pick on you, and then they discuss the results of their pranks. So you're not dealing with ONE narcissist. Oh no. There's whole snake den of them working together, with their flying monkeys, who don't quite realize that's what they are, ultimately for the purpose of making you lose your mind. And it takes a LONG TIME to realize you are living in the Twilight Zone. Thank you for confirming what I figured out LONG ago. Because MOST people would NEVER believe me and DON'T if I tell them this.

  • @shieldoffaith8798
    @shieldoffaith8798 17 годин тому

    Hey Jerry, I’m very thankful for your videos. I’ve been realizing in time, how hard it is for me to say no to a family member close to me. I make a point of not seeing them for a few months because their high need to control is too stressful. Things have gotten even worse because we have differences in religion, and they are now constantly trying to force me to come to their MLM events. I have a hard time saying no and will come up with excuses to say no to try and avoid a fight or argument. I just want to keep the peace and have a civil discussion but it seems impossible. They wont take no for an answer and its really causing stress and anxiety. I feel like all I am to them is a sales pitch. They have been love bombing me like crazy to get me to try their product and sign up for their opportunity. One time they gave an hour long monologue on the phone about it and never once came up for air. They have a losers vs winners mentality, saying that most people are average and work normal jobs. Would you ever consider doing a video covering narcissism and MLMs?

  • @jackilynpyzocha662
    @jackilynpyzocha662 17 годин тому

    It was easy for dad(narcissist) when I was a baby, as I grew, and complain to/about him; he grew to resent me. Too bad for him! He is a misogynist and sadist, a bully. I have no contact with him since Easter of this year!

  • @audrey1258
    @audrey1258 18 годин тому

    Exactly

  • @nicolecato634
    @nicolecato634 18 годин тому

    She randomly does this in public in stores to strangers.

  • @michelemiktus2312
    @michelemiktus2312 18 годин тому

    Ex narc had a meeting w/my tweens, teen and mother on my “drug addiction”. Only problem, I’m not a drug addict but he had my kids convinced. One would think one’s own mother would go off on the spouse and tell him what an arsehole he is to lie to his children about their mother and the reality is that she is quite ill and your father isn’t helping her w/anything so she isn’t able to properly rest and continues to become more ill. Nope, instead, one’s covert narc mother says to you “I’m so worried about you b/c you’ve been so sick so I didn’t know what to say”. Freaking really? I was talking to her 2-3 times a day, telling her how he was treating me and I was so sick and can’t get rest. Nope, good ole loving mom, sides w/the b@stard. I still didn’t realize yet she was a covert narc, she played the helpless, poor me, I’m afraid of my own shadow very well. Now she can’t understand why I tell her nothing🙄

  • @gracie3174
    @gracie3174 18 годин тому

    Exactly how Narcism operates …going no contact is the only solution. Anything else is permission to them to continue their behavior. And they will every time. Regardless of what they say or do to get you back, in the end….its only about what they want. It’s never about you. They don’t care about you except for what you can do for them. Don’t ever, ever believe they care about you because it’s just not possible for them …even if you are their child.

  • @toniclarkstone1778
    @toniclarkstone1778 19 годин тому

    I've dealt with a narcissistic mother my whole life and I'm 42 now. Last year I found the strength to go no contact. My mum lied to everyone about why, tried to turn my children against me and when I wouldn't change my mind and my children wouldn't go against me she kicked us out off the will. It was the Best decision I've ever made because I'm less stressed and we are happier without her toxic behaviour.

  • @Jennifer-bw7ku
    @Jennifer-bw7ku 19 годин тому

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 19 годин тому

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 19 годин тому

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @twinfred3160
      @twinfred3160 18 годин тому

      I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 18 годин тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 18 годин тому

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @tnels5027
    @tnels5027 19 годин тому

    Facts, facts, facts... Many, many thanks for your videos🌻🙏🕊️🎭

  • @DreamsofJeannie
    @DreamsofJeannie 19 годин тому

    When I went no contact my father used my bipolar disorder against me by telling me and my whole family that I'm delusional to think that I was ever abused. Told me I'm not well. Thanks Dad for the gaslighting.

  • @hannahrosa5485
    @hannahrosa5485 19 годин тому

    We all have a right to hold an opinion and to change that opinion at any time.

  • @karendotson230
    @karendotson230 20 годин тому

    This is shockingly true.